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5 Tips to Start a Gratitude Journaling Practice

We often overlook the little things. The micro-moments in our lives are worthy of our attention.

Alex Elle

Apr 20
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Starting a gratitude practice doesn't have to be a deep or emotionally laborious experience. You don't have to be at your rock bottom like I was. In fact, I recommend starting before the fall. You don't need to be experiencing feelings of ungratefulness to begin either. Deciding to center gratitude in your life is such a gift. It's a small act of presence, mindfulness, and care that we can gift to ourselves daily—no matter what type of day we're having.

Gratitude is grounding.

I've grown to love my gratitude practice because it reminds me to find ease and beauty in what's in front of me. We often overlook the little things. The micro-moments in our lives are worthy of our attention. As a writer, keeping a gratitude journal makes the most sense to me. It also serves as a time capsule—which is really cool. Putting things on the page can remind us where we've been and how we've grown. It also keeps us connected to our humanity and possibilities to experience true presence. I enjoy going back through my journal and looking at the things that brought me joy and gratefulness in previous entries.

Here are a few tips to start your gratitude journaling practice:

  1. Find a journal that you'll enjoy writing in. This was extremely important to me because I wanted to feel a sense of joy when I sat down to write. Sitting around, I had the journal below, waiting to be used at the perfect time. I'd been saving it for something special. The design makes me smile, I like leaving it out on my nightstand because it's pretty, and I get excited about writing in it when I see it. This may sound miniscule to some, but having tools in your practice that excite you is a small but beautiful way to create a consistent ritual. I added tabs to the pages to keep them organized. The process of setting up my journal was a moment of gratitude in itself.

  2. Pencil in your practice. Choose a time of day that you can realistically add to your journal. Set an alarm that goes off at the same time every day. I personally enjoy nighttime gratitude reflections because it invites me to recount my day and look for the small things that may have brought me joy. My journaling session isn't long. Most days, it's just five minutes from start to finish. I sit in my book nook corner on my meditation pillows, taking a few deep breaths before starting. Some days my gratitude list is longer than others, but truthfully the length isn't important. What's important is the action of making and taking the time to get quiet, tune in, and be grateful for the moment in front of me.

  3. Make a small goal and take inventory of how you feel at the beginning and end. Starting small is valuable. Baby steps in creating a new ritual and practice are just as important as the major milestones. Set a realistic goal and stick to it. Maybe you choose to do a seven-day gratitude journaling practice. Take note of your mindset the day you begin, and the day you end. At the end of the seven days, you may decide that you want to keep going. I started with thirty days, and it was transformative for my mental health. Like walking, gratitude practice is now a part of my daily life.

  4. Be flexible. There will be days when you forget or don't feel like it. Don't beat yourself up over it. We don't want the practice to turn into a hassle. We want this to be easeful and a gift of rest and recentering. On the days you may forget, write that down. Here's something I wrote: "I forgot to write my gratitude yesterday, but I am grateful that I remembered today." On the days you don't want to show up, write that down. Another personal example: "I don't feel like reflecting today, but I am grateful that I'm being honest about how I really feel." It's important to remember that gratitude practice isn't performative, and it doesn't have to be camouflaged by toxic positivity or looking on the bright side. You are allowed to show up however you feel and however you are. There is beauty in your honesty, especially on the days when gratitude feels out of reach. I can always tell when I wasn't feeling my practice because my journal will say: I am grateful for my breath. Sometimes that's all we got and that, too, is okay.

  5. Get creative. There have been days when writing felt too hard, so I voice noted my feelings instead. This is one of my favorite things to do when pen and paper feel like too much. The next day, I'll go back and listen, which always feels a bit awkward but is tremendously helpful. I reflect on the things that stick out to me the most with gratitude in mind and add it to my journal. Making this practice your own is important. It doesn't have to look one way or the other. You can find your flow with time, effort, and consistency.

I hope these tips are helpful starting points. If you want to hear more about anything else, please leave a comment, and I'm happy to answer your questions.

Community: Who would be interested in a 30-day gratitude challenge starting May 1st?

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31 Comments

  • Nicole Lapin
    Writes The Money Minute
    I love this! I've been talking to a lot of folks lately about how to start a gratitude journal. I'm going to share this with them— this is exactly what they need. Thank you! xo
    • 7w
  • Lora Manny
    I'll join the challenge.
    • 9w
  • Mia Roldan
    I am up for a 30-day gratitude challenge!
    • 9w
  • Silvana Ordoñez
    Let's do this!!!! ❤ #30days
    • 9w
  • Sondra Fletcher Van Hooser
    I’m up for the challenge!
    • 9w
  • Brenda Korinek
    I’ll join a 30 day gratitude challenge. After reading your article I feel the desire to fine tune my gratitude practice.
    • 9w
  • Linsey Miller
    I'd join the challenge.
    • 9w
  • Lisa Watt
    #4 was so important for me to hear. I really liked how you were honest but grateful when you didn’t feel it on a particular day. I always got stuck here, feeling not into writing but putting some toxic positive on the page because I thought I should. A…
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  • Kimberly Howse
    I love this. I tried sharing, but the share button attached doesn't work fyi
    • 9w
  • Tessa Valle
    I would love a 30-day gratitude challenge in May with all of you! Also, thanks for your tips. I look forward to creating a book nook with a meditation corner in my own home.
    • 9w
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